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Top three Spiritual Values

(It is not about me, it’s about God)

Top three Relational Values

The roles of Husband, as played by man, and Wife, as played by woman, reflect God through Authority and Submission

Top three Parental Values

Godly Parenting is about Discipline, resulting in Godliness, not about Punishment, controlling Behavior

Top three Sexual Values

My body does not belong to me, It belongs to God, It will either reflect or dishonor His glory

Through Sexuality a Husband and Wife Reflect the Glory and Image of God to each other.

The male body and the female body are designed to become one flesh, they fit together to reflect the image of God through creation

Top three Financial Values

The world operates on a system of Buying and Selling, God operates on a system of Giving and Receiving

Vows for Husbands

To be a…..

Spiritual

Man of Faith: to truly live in a way that it is clear to everyone, "It is not about me it's about God."
Man of Prayer: to pray boldly in ways that tangible measurable results happen in our lives every day.
Man of Action: to be a doer of the word, knowing His word and then obeying no matter how difficult it may be.

Personal

Man of Integrity: to live my life above reproach, leaving Satan no room for blackmail. When everything I say matches everything I do.
Man of Honor: to place doing right above being right, revealing the Character of God through my life. I am not a man of honor unless you say I am.
Man of Dignity: to leave a legacy and example that our children can be proud of, living humbly, becoming worthy of your respect.

Relational

Man of Love: to love you in a way that reflects the glory and image of God; as Christ loves the church and as my own body. May my very acts of love make you a woman of virtue.
Man of Vision: to be a leader you can follow, clear but unexplainable, firm but flexible, confident but humble. May my very acts of leadership and vision make you a woman of purpose.
Man of Safety: to use my authority to fight diligently to free you from all physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bondage. To be your knight in shining armor. May my very acts of safety free you to be a woman of beauty.

Genesis 1-3, 1 Corinthians 11:1-12, Ephesians 5:22-33

Vows for Wives

To be a….

Spiritual

Woman of Faith: to truly live in a way that it is clear to everyone, “It is not about me, it’s about God.”
Woman of Prayer: partnering with you in agreement to “loose and bind” according to Matthew 18:18-19
Woman of Action: partnering with you to be a doer of the word, knowing His word and then obeying, no matter how difficult it may be.

Personal

Woman of Virtue: to live my life above reproach, leaving Satan no room for blackmail. Living with moral excellence and modesty in body mind and spirit.
Woman of Purpose: to be a husband lover and a children lover, managing our household under your authority. I am not a woman of purpose if it does not fulfill your vision.
Woman of Beauty: reflecting outwardly through appearance and conduct the gentle, quiet reverence of my heart for God.

Relational

Woman of Respect: showing you honor and respect, “as unto the Lord”. Submitting to you as the church does to Jesus. May my very acts of respect make you a man of honor.
Woman of Help: to help you fulfill your God given vision; showing understanding when it is not understandable, conforming when it is not comfortable, humble when it seems humiliating. May my very acts of help make you a man of integrity.
Woman of Encouragement: to give nurture, healing and comfort as you fight as a warrior for my safety. May my very acts of encouragement make you a man of Dignity.